Cancer Zodiac sign is characterized by their sense of belonging and family tendencies. They want to have kids and grandkids, respect their parents, grandparents and so on – including very far relatives. Cancers can be perfect lifetime partners to raise a dynasty. Plus, they are fun. Yet they have their own cons in communicating – we will cover it too.
To charm, date and have a relationship with Cancer person, you need to treat them in an own way – like any other sign. To make this process easier, we will cover all of the aspects – knowing Cancers, dating them, starting a relationship etc.
About Cancer in Terms of Dating
To charm any Zodiac sign, you have to know them at first. This description will help you understand Cancers.
They Are Pleasant
Cancers are most lovely, supporting and generous partners among all signs. Make them feel loved – and they will reply mutually with multiplied feelings, devoting their life to taking care of you and your kids.
Love Cozy Places
With coziest of them being their house. They might have spent years on arranging their space – don’t mess around with it. Rather be glad when they invite you in.
Their Emotions Are Like Rollercoaster
They can get happy, then sad – even about the same thing eventually. They always feel something besides calmness, and their feelings come and go without much decisions made based off of them.
Open Up Hardly
It is not easy to get to know Cancers. Expect to take leader’s role in dating and let them feel safe – that’s how you get a thing going.
As persons naturally looking to find compromises, and emotional ones, Cancers don’t tolerate cussing. Even if it’s rational arguing or it’s needed to relieve stress for their partner, they will go out of their way to avoid conflict.
“Thanks” to their high expectations. Not too much people can live up to Cancers’ demands, so relationships are often breaking fast.
All About Being Protected
Insecurity in any means is Cancers’ worst enemy. If you can’t provide enough of it, they will look for it in someone else. Yet they would never cheat on you, and even a free Cancer won’t participate in a one-night-stand.
Going Out Is Not Really For Them
Perfect date for Cancers is a traditional candlelit dinner at home. Make an evening feel special and comfy.
They love, care and give a lot – we mean, really a lot! These times, remember that it’s a blessing to be loved by such committed person who does not allow too much people around.
Romantic and Sensual In Bed
They like traditional, relaxing and romantic atmosphere. Aroma candles, soft music, foreplay and cuddling after it.
Pros and Cons of Dating and Relationship with Cancer
Cancer have positive and negative sides of their personalities in terms of romantic relationships and dating – as all Zodiac signs do.
Their pros are:
When they feel something special, they will be caretaking, close and intimate, will never leave and make you feel special.
Cancers are deeply-understanding, listening and are never impulsive or judging.
They search for equation and peaceful ways to solve problems while staying lovely and giving.
Yet their cons are:
Cancers are too sensitive – it is not 100% negative trait, yet it is bad for them to feel sorry for years after you excuse their mistake – even a small one.
They can get too possessive, forget about loving themselves and focus fully on giving care to others, they hold back their emotions and needs.
Their emotions change like tides of a sea, which makes them happy and kind in one time, and angry or depressive in others – it is impossible to predict how they will change their mind any given situation, since their mood is not really rational.
How to Date Cancer
Dating Cancers often goes to extremes – either they really like you, or it’s completely opposite. To charm them, try:
- They like to be swept of their feet with an expression of a potential partner. Especially women – they are waiting for their knight on a white horse
- You need to get to know them better. A process of it will show whether you will be good couple or not
- They are waiting for your first step – even men. If you are a type of person to just go for it – then go!
- Don’t play with them in terms of telling truth and feelings. They are both intuitive and insulted easy-people
- Make them feel comfortable. When going out, look for a quietest place possible – or just stay at home of one of you
Do’s and Don’ts When Dating Cancer
As any other sign, they have their own treatment methods.
Ways to treat Cancer:
- be genuine like Cancers – they expect and appreciate it
- be sensitive and remember all important dates like their birthday or day you’ve first met
- lie to them – this is one of the only things they might never forgive
- never hold back on something you don’t like – if you tell it right away, they will see how they can solve a problem, yet if you hide it – they can get insulted because you don’t let them take care of you
- never be angry on them – this affects Cancers badly and might cause breaking
Relationship Compatibility of Cancer and Other Zodiac Signs
Look who should Cancer date and who can date them:
|Aries||Relationships can be adventurous, creative and initiative|
|Taurus||Ideal couple in classic sense|
|Gemini||Battle of minds, healthy arguing and clash of ideas – would be together as far as there are things to explore|
|Cancer||Different positions in life, but of Cancer gives enough air and Gemini has understanding, it would be living and exciting relationship|
|Leo||They are like two children who like to play – ideas, always being on the go, leader-follower role model|
|Virgo||Exciting, lovely relationship with a lot of activities of improving other’s lives|
|Libra||Intellectual, floating in clouds couple, but too much differences – if they get to understand each other, it would be wonderful|
|Scorpio||Rare type of relationships, but they can learn a lot from each other|
|Sagittarius||Communicative, adventurous couple – interesting duo|
|Capricorn||When free from annoying each other, they together make use of just anything|
|Aquarius||Passion for intellectual activities and lots of excitement – as far as they take care of each other’s personalities|
|Pisces||Not a dream couple, except if those two are meant for each other – this way, they would have a strong bond in just any aspect of life|
Dating Gemini (May 21 – June 20)
Dating Leo (July 22 – August 22)